parenting is not an easy thing, we all know ; but it is a passage of life.
your children cannot forever be toddlers;
you prayed to God for the blessing of thess children, therefore they are not meant to be ignored or treated the way we like.
we carry our babies to daycare, or better still, leave them with maids in the house.
the truth is we cannot eat our cake and at the same time have it
This is a disturbing video of a maid with a child, please, the video is very disturbing, take caution before you watch.
nobody can take care of your child as you, since you are alive, why don't you try and look after them yourself
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every woman wants to be working class, even if their husbands instruct them not to. equality palava
let's re-think, it is just for the children sake, after they start school, then you are free.
children come home from pre-schools with divers of sickness, then we give different antibiotics to them. - too much of which is not healthy.
men want their wives to work an bring in money since the situation in the country is not palatable.
the few solutions I have are these:
- we should be contented as a family: its not a MUST that you should drive a big car right away, let the husband's income be enough till the child grows up- 2 years, thereafter, the mother can get a job.
- women should leave egoistic behaviour of gender equality to bring in money but think of the child's wellbeing.
- trading is best for nursing mothers uptill the time they are open for office jobs.
- men should try to understand these risk and implore wives to be patient to take time out for the children
- pray to God for wisdom in times like this.